自己碼了一下英字版,如有錯(cuò)誤請(qǐng)多包涵，希望能幫到有需要的小伙伴，共勉。

If you’re trying to recover from the breakup, trying to get over it.

I just want to let you know that this hole breakup thing could potentially be the best thing that ever happened to you.

First of all, I understand your struggle, been there, done that.

Back in the college, when I was sitting there through heartbreak, I felt defeated.?

It was like I’m losing something that’s extremely valuable in my life.

But I realize that instead of all the betrayal, all the bitterness, all the complaints and all the bullshit, is the lack of value.?

Back then, she failed to see the value of me.

She didn’t see me as a good investment. I was a bad deal to her. And it’s free market.

She got to do what she got to do. I can’t talk somebody into saying yes to a bad deal, because that gonna come back to me and bite me on the butt.

There will be another heart break for both of us. That’s a hard pill to swallow.

But from her perspective, she didn’t think that there is a bright future ahead us as a team, so she weighted up.

The pros and cons over and over and over again and she was like.?

The benefits of continuing this relationship doesn’t, you know, outweigh the potential loss.

So, I gotta get out of here before it’s too late. And that’s fine.

What I need to do is to switch focus.

Instead of complaining that nowadays people don’t appreciate love and the loyalty anymore, I focus on the real problem. The real question.

Hey matt, how are you going to turn the bad deal into a good deal?

Hey matt, how are you going to make yourself a valuable asset that it’s hard for people to say no to? This is the real question.

Because we can’t fix the lack of value with words and promises, and we don’t want to sell the bad product to a wrong person. Like, no!

You know, a lot of people don’t realize that when you actually become a valuable asset, someone will automatically jump on board and make it their duty, their responsibility, ever their career to make you the happiest person in the world, because that’s a good deal for them. That’s a good deal for their family.

So, this whole breakup thing is actually a rude awakening.

It serves as a trigger, a trigger that leads me, that leads you to become a better person.

So, it’s time to switch your focus. You don’t focus on that person, that specific girl, that specific guy, no.

You don’t chase person, you chase excellence.